恋爱假期

I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible,我了解那种渺小又微不足道的感受and how it can actually ache in places that you didn't know you had inside you,就算遍体鳞伤也要故作坚强and it doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get不管换了几个新发型or gyms you join or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends,或是去健身或是和姊妹淘喝白酒you still go to bed every night going over every detail,日日夜夜都仍在回想着每个细节and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood.纳闷自己到底哪里错了 哪里误解了And how in the hell, for that brief moment, you could think that you were that happy?最后自问怎么会把短暂的欢愉错当成永久的快乐And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he'll see the light有时候会说服自己and show up at your door.他会想清楚回来的And after all that, however long all that may be,经历过这一切后you'll go somewhere new人还是会重新开始and you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again,再遇到值得付出的人and little pieces of your soul will finally come back.然后一点一点地重拾自信And all that fuzzy stuff,而那些模糊的回忆those years of your life that you wasted,那么多年浪费掉的人生that will eventually begin to fade.终究会开始消逝2

I understand feelings as small and as insignificant as humanly possible and how it can actually ache in places that you didn't even know that exist inside. And it’s ok to finally come to admit that it did hurt and to cry for those brief moments you think you were that happy. And yet most luckily, it is absolutely coming to a closure now. Been there, done that and a number of lessons learnt. The best part? In love I still unwaveringly trust. 20180727

Arthur Abbott: Say a man and a woman both need something to sleep in and both go to the same men's pajama department. The man says to the salesman, "I just need bottoms," and the woman says, "I just need a top." They look at each other and that's the 'meet cute.'Amanda: You know Graham, I just broke up with someone and considering you just showed up and you're insanely good-looking and probably won't remember me anyway... I'm thinking we should have sex... If you want.Graham: Is that a trick question?Graham: I have the classic male problem of no follow through. Absolutely never remember to call after a date - but as this wasn't a date, I guess I'm off the hook.Iris: Because you're hoping you're wrong. And every time she does something that tells you she's no good, you ignore it. And every time she comes through and suprises you, she wins you over, and you lose that argument with yourself, that she's not for you.Miles: Exactly, and on top of that there's the old standby, I can't believe a girl like that would actually be with a guy like me.Miles: Iris, if you were a melody... I used only the good notes.Miles: Don't blow away.Arthur Abbott: Iris, in the movies, we have leading ladies and we have the best friend. You, I can tell, are a leading lady, but for some reason, you're behaving like the best friend.Iris: You're supposed to be the leading lady in your own life, for God's sake!Iris: I've found almost everything ever written about love to be true. Shakespeare said "Journeys end in lovers meeting." What an extraordinary thought. Personally, I have not experienced anything remotely close to that, but I am more than willing to believe Shakespeare had. I suppose I think about love more than anyone really should. I am constantly amazed by its sheer power to alter and define our lives. It was Shakespeare who also said "love is blind". Now that is something I know to be true. For some quite inexplicably, love fades; for others love is simply lost. But then of course love can also be found, even if just for the night. And then, there's another kind of love: the cruelest kind. The one that almost kills its victims. Its called unrequited love. Of that I am an expert. Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other. But what about the rest of us? What about our stories, those of us who fall in love alone? We are the victims of the one sided affair. We are the cursed of the loved ones. We are the unloved ones, the walking wounded. The handicapped without the advantage of a great parking space! Yes, you are looking at one such individual. And I have willingly loved that man for over three miserable years! The absolute worst years of my life! The worst Christmas', the worst Birthday's, New Years Eve's brought in by tears and valium. These years that I have been in love have been the darkest days of my life. All because I've been cursed by being in love with a man who does not and will not love me back. Oh god, just the sight of him! Heart pounding! Throat thickening! Absolutely can't swallow! All the usual symptoms.Iris: It doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends... you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. and how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he'll see the light and show up at your door. And after all that, however long all that may be, you'll go somewhere new. and you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. And little peices of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade.

说实话，一直以为这是个很肥皂的电影，但是因为凯特 温丝莱特，（好吧，我承认是冲着她去的。

）多了些高贵和温馨。

一直把《那段场景记在脑子里。

温丝莱特对那个男人说一切结束了，你再也不会成为我人生的重点了。

然后是如此开心地把他推出去，像从牢里解脱般伸出双臂拥抱这个世界。

一直记着这个场景，因为那种感觉是那样富有神迹，似乎很美好很美好。

她的深呼吸，似乎在说这一瞬间我才体会到了自己的美丽，自己的价值是那么宽广，不只是限于这个男人。

想起林徽因说，生活比爱情更宽广。

曾经执着过的，曾经为之把自己压得很低很低的，曾经以为这是一生的价值即使受苦亦是光荣的。

可是，总会有那一刻真相顿悟。

原来这个男人根本配不上自己，维持彼此关系的只是自己那一点点小小的不肯澄清的misapprehension,像一点点微弱的火焰，风一吹就会毁灭，然后一切回到黑暗。

也许，那一刻，当Jasper说话的时候不小心吹来了一阵风吧。

这么美好的自己，我却捧在你面前，任你忽视，只有需要我的时候你会说I need you.多美的爱瑞斯，老人说，you,are supposed to be the leader,but for some reason,you make yourself a bestfriend.她美丽，热忱，用心去爱这个世界，包括那个戳戳的根本配不上她的Jasper,“If you are a song,I will just use the good tone."Jack Black这样对她说。

女人，何苦这样，一日日，一时时，一刻刻重复着，为了不知道珍惜自己的人而把自己压得如此如此之低。

"You make me think that's all my fault,'cause I too much love you!"当凯特这样说的时候，那个男人傻傻地看着她，呵，他其实从来没进过她的内心。

所以，她可以超开心地说-oh,it's over!深呼吸，你闻到这空气的味道了么？

有一种来自更远的吸引，总是带着新鲜，总是有着希望。

有另一种生活你可以获得的，只要那一刻你悟到了，天地便刹那间宽广了。

也许是上帝的安排，让你在某一瞬间陷入万劫不复，在另一瞬间让你瞬间开悟，原来事情是这样的，他是这样估量你的价值的，生活是这样的。

傻过，也就过了。

悟到了，伤痛都如财富般发光。

然后，去做自己该做的事情，那些更宽广的生活，那双你遗失在时空里的干净得令人心颤的眼睛。

把爱瑞斯躺在沙发上说的话送给大家吧，不深刻，但那是一个用心生活的女人的期许。

她总是相信美好的。

Always.Well,what I'm trying to say is that I understand your feelings as small and insignificant in a human's ever small.And how can you ache when you don't know what's inside you?And it doesn't matter how many hair-cuts you get,at what gym you joint,how many wines you drink with your girlfriends,you still go to bed every night comes every details .You wonder what you did wrong and how you can misunderstand him,and how in that breath moment you could think you were that happy.Sometimes you could even convinced yourself that he will see the light and show up your door.And after all that,how ever long of that maybe,you will go somewhere new,and you will meet people someone makes you feel worthwhile again.All pieces of your soul will finally come back.And all that fuzz stuff,those years of your life wasted that will eventually bagan to fade.

《恋爱假期》，一个关于恋爱、失恋、再恋爱的电影，温情、浪漫，以下是个人喜欢，整理的电影台词(中英文对照)。。

1、一场巧遇(两个主人公相遇,在电影里)This was some meet-cute (It’s how two characters meet …, … in a movie .)比如说一男一女，Say a man and a women …他们都需要买睡衣，…Both need something to sleep in .他们都到了同一家睡衣店，And they both go to the same mers pajama department .好的，-男的跟售货员说：“我只要下半截”， Right , - And the man says to the salesman : “I just need bottoms.”-女的跟售货员说：“我只要上半截”，The woman says : “ I just need a top .”两人四目相投，这就是“巧遇”。

They look at each other , and that’s the : “meet-cute”. 2、Why am I attracted to a person I know isn’t good ?我为什么总被那些 我知道不适合的人吸引I happen to know the answer to this . You’re hoping you’re wrong .我正好知道这个答案，因为你希望你是错的。

She does something that tells you she’s no good ,you ignore it .你知道在某些方面 她不适合你 但你却无视了Every time she comes through and surprises you , she wins you over …但她每次给你带来惊喜时 你就投降了… and you lose that argument with yourself that she’s not for you .。。。

说服不了自己 觉得她不适合你Exactly .. 没错3、“I can’t believe a girl like that would be with a guy like me ”“不敢相信会有那样的女生喜欢上我”4、It turned out that he wasrt in love with me like I thought .最终发现他并没有我想象的那么爱我What I’m trying to say is …我想说的是。。。

…I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible .我能体会到人类 最难体会到的渺小和无助How it can actually ache in places that you didn’t know you had inside you .那就好像你的心窝 被人狠狠地刺了一针It doesn’t matter how many new haircuts you get …无论你怎么换发型 。。。

… or gyms you join …。。。

或者去健身房锻炼 。。。

… or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with girlfriends .。。。

还是和好友一起喝香槟畅谈You still go to bed every night going over every detail …每晚上床后还是会重复每一个细节… and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood.。。。

问自己哪里做得不对 还是自己误会了什么And how in the hell , for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy ?怎么可能会有那么一秒 以为自己是幸福的And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he’ll see the light and show up at you door .有时自己还确信 他会清醒过来 出现在我的面前And after all that …经历了那些付出之后 。。。

… however long “all that ” may be …。。。

不管付出了多少 。。。

… you’ll go somewhere new .。。。

你去了新的地方And you’ll meet people who make you feel won’thwhile again .遇见了会珍惜自己的人And little pieces of your soul will finally come back .还能找回灵魂失落的碎片And all that fuzzy stuff …过往一切的小细节 。。。

… those years of your life that you wasted …。。。

还有那几年被忽视的日子 。。。

… that will eventually begin to fade .。。。

最终会慢慢淡去 5、Jasper…嘉士伯。。。

… you have never treated me right .。。。

你从来没有珍惜过我-Ever-从来没有You broken my heart .你伤了我的心And you acted like somehow it was my fault …还假装说是我的错。。。

…my misunderstanding , and I was too in love with you …。。。

是我误解了你 我以前太爱你 。。。

… to ever be mad at you , so I just punished myself !For years !。。。

不舍得对你发脾气 所以我几年来一直 惩罚自己！

But you waltzing in here on my lovely Christmas holiday …可你就这么笃悠悠的 闯进我的圣诞假日 。。。

… and telling me that you don’t want to lose me …。。。

告诉我你不想失去我 。。。

… whilst you’re about to get married …然后准备跟人结婚… somehow newly entitles me to say …现在我终于可以说出这句话… It’s over .我们结束了This … This twisted ,toxic thing between us …我们之间这扭曲 害人的关系 。。。

… is finally finished !。。。

终于结束了！

I’m miraculously done being us in love with you !我不可思议的 不再爱你了！

I’ve got a life to start living 我还有新的生活-And you’re not going to be in it . – Darling …- 而你不会出现在其中 - 亲爱的

本不打算写评论，看了其他人的“贬大于褒”，忍不住跳出来说说我的想法。

在犹豫了半天之后，终于一个人步入电影院，抱了一盒爆米花，度过开学前最后的星期六。

场子坐的几乎有九成满，看到搞笑的地方大家一起笑出声来的感觉很好。

情节虽然没有特别出彩的地方，但是处理得很好，不拖沓，不平淡，不闷，偶尔有了讲道理的嫌疑之后，立马跳出几句搞笑的台词使气氛再次轻松起来。

winslet接到两人电话那段尤其搞笑，hoffman的出场引得大家不禁莞尔。

既然连片名都叫holiday，那么怎么着都只是一部轻松的浪漫的幽默的假期娱乐片子而已，不需要背负太多的意义啊责任啊之类的。

再见肥仔杰.上次一别还是<金刚>之后.不是为了他,就凭傻大姐卡没隆地牙次,跟我最讨厌的小生糗的骡,是不足以吸引我去戏院看的.虽然还有肥温.自从金凯瑞那部失忆症女郎之后，我已经越来越爱肥温拉.绝对是演技跟本色派.果然她跟肥仔杰在一起，有点感觉怪怪的.她是温馨知性的形象,虽然故意表现地活泼亲切,且手足无措.简直是伦敦版的郑秀文.这次惊讶地发现傻大姐在<变脸>里那张充满诱惑跟在<哈拉玛利>里阳光灿烂的脸,居然老得这发现简直跟上次看<偷情>里的大嘴萝卜瓷老了一样,让人叹息.卡没隆大姐还跟肥温不一样，后者的眼纹好象不太让人注意,但前者就简直是美人迟暮啊.不禁暗自担心,小贾同学看久了会不会有一天审美疲劳啊.不过幸好,身材还是超棒,嘴唇依然是好来物数一数二的性感翘嘴唇.糗的骡帅哥极尽深情之能事.这次的角色相当讨巧,演有两个小女儿的单身父亲.据说现在美貌单身父亲控绝对是潮流所向,南希大人果然不愧是言情片炮制高手啊.可惜他再怎么好看，也不是我的型.我还是喜欢他演的<兵临城下>里不是靠耍帅的神枪手瓦犀利多些.相当温馨的题材，配合圣诞气氛,在一个寒冷一个热辣的两地交换.两种圣诞,一样的爱情.该说说我最心水的肥仔杰了.很可惜,他老人家在此戏中的戏份少得可怜.丑生难道就不能多给点镜头吗?而且也没啥突破性，基本就是在重复自己以前的表演拉. 多少让我有些失望.最喜欢看他神经质地表演,可惜为了不跟主题违背,他居然还演得是个痴心情长贱的老实好男人呢.这还是我们熟悉的<摇滚学校 >里的痞子天才,跟<失恋排行榜>里的神经质店员吗?所幸,他还是演一个乐人.电影配乐人.在DVD店依然有段还算可以打正分的小亮点.而他模仿的各名片的音乐中，还有<毕业生>的片段,居然老达死顶火夫慢,还轧了一个镜头,实在让人会心一乐.跟肥温的感情戏,没什么铺垫,简直就是为了凑对而凑对.不过虽然情节设计的有些牵强,但两人的对手戏还是满有看头.部分眼神火花四射.只是死胖子站在温姐身边,实在是太不般配了.黑线我果然还是在爱情片里鄙视非美型的俗人啊囧rz最后的结尾稍嫌平淡了些,委实没什么让人印象深刻的高潮论编剧功力绝对没有<偷情>里高干,且也无有那里特别让人动心的背景乐.不能不说是个遗憾.看爱情轻喜剧(其实也谈不上喜剧拉，只是大团圆好结局吧)的好处是,心里洋溢着一股温情.年轻的女人看了,觉得爱情还是美好的,我还有希望去经历.岁数大的女人看了，觉得我的人生也曾有过那样美丽的时刻,摸摸脸,心里想起过去,亦有回忆的浪漫。

尽管那有可能是人为美化的.因为是下午场.全场只得7位观众.老老少少的6位女性.我只是在想，那唯一一个嚼着小熊糖的男人,他是为什么来看的呢?(PS,非得再控诉一下我对SONY公司的鄙视.自从他们购买了哥伦比亚,就几乎在任何旗下的电影中不放过任何一个出现他们产品的机会.上次的 007如此,这次的HOLIDAY又如此.我看到那无处不在的SONY音响,SONY电视就觉得实在是倒胃口.难道他们不知道，在一个欧洲知识分子家里出现那么大一台SONY平面直角,是很可耻的吗?还有,继续大用特用VAIO的笔记本,呕卖糕的，不怕电池再次自焚吗?)

昨天晚上看了新片，《THE HOLIDAY》，很温馨的浪漫爱情片，很适合我这种花痴小女人观看，虽然有很老套的圣诞元素，但我就是买帐。

片中的女人生活都很boring，于是她们决定互换生活，就好象只有用这种不可思议的疯狂举动才能挽救她们于窒息的郁闷生活，呵呵，不过看来她们的决定是对的，换了完全不同的生活，人也仿佛被reset了。

一切都太完美了。

片中CAMERON DIAZ奉献了她最好的一次演出，这让我很以外，不过也许是因为我以前对她存有偏见，说她是“混血给混裂了的人”，我是指长相，毕竟她的嘴角大的有点不合比例，但我从来不否认她的身材，这点她已经在《IN HER SHOES》向我展示过了。

在《THE HOLIDAY》中她的表演可圈可点，我特别欣赏那场她和前男友分手后拼命想哭又哭不出来的戏，和那场她第一次去JUDE LAW扮演的男主角家里时，错以为他家里有别的女人时的满脸尴尬，太完美了。

她把那种微妙的心理变化表现的淋漓尽致，实在可爱！

我现在终于明白为什么JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE会这么爱她了，有这么一个可爱的女人在身边，即使比自己大点又有什么关系呢？

其他演员也都很不错，特别是有我喜欢的KATE WINSLET，呵呵，她给人的感觉就是那种很温润的感觉，很舒服。

唯一让我郁闷的是和她配戏的是JACK BLACK，这个“《金刚》里坏剧团老板”（我妈说的）怎么看都和KATE不配，我也对他印象不好，不喜欢他。

而且给KATE的 戏份明显没有CAMERON的多，不说不公平吧，但这确实造成了诉说KATE这一对时略显草率。

影片里的LA和伦敦实在是太美了，什么时候我才能亲自体验一下呢幻想ing……《纽约时报》说“这仅仅是一部爱情电影”，OH MY GOD，你还想要什么呢？

在今天这个年代，能够有一部真正的“爱情电影”真的已经足够了。

我的天，上帝，我的生活也很boring啊难道我也要换生活吗？

WHO CAN TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO！

圣诞节的应景之作，猜也猜得到该是怎样的：浪漫（爱情主线）、温馨（一个迟暮老人的复线）、幽默、养眼的帅哥（jude law）和不那么美的美女(diaz)。

伦敦和洛杉矶两地，两个情场失意的女人的假期际遇。

一个爱的妥协，一个爱的强势，结果却都一样，圣诞前落了单，伤了心，忙着躲起来，自己养伤。

假期过完，伤养好，找到Mr Right， 生活还是很美好.1. kate winslet演了个郑秀文的招牌角色，却不如郑演得活灵活现。

游泳游的挺不错。

2. Jack Black不能搞怪要装老实，但是怎么藏也藏不住狡黠的眼神，搞笑的。

可惜戏份比较少，人长得不帅就是吃亏。

3. Jude Law是个帅帅单身爸爸，女儿天使一样，还会做缝纫，这么讨巧的角色，自然是无敌了。

4. Diaz还是《哈拉玛丽》里那头轻爽金色短发，就是真的老多了，那一身身冬装很好看，角色还是有点傻大姐的感觉。

5. 那个写剧本的老爷爷（连名字都叫Arthur），对爱情颇有见地，说得话都很有启发性。

6. 以洛杉矶为背景的故事和电影工业有千丝万缕的联系，写剧本的，做trailer的，给电影配乐的，我也想有那个一正面都放得电影的房子。

7. 广告太明显了，sony的广告到处都是。

8. 贺岁嘛，重在掺和。

Dustin Hoffman漏了个脸。

Edward Burns也演了个配角，看过他和Dustin合作的Confidence，现在只记得他这张像本 阿弗莱克的帅脸了。

9. 虽然肯定不会成为像《真爱至上》那样的经典，还是看的很开心。

后面快到结尾，还小感动了。

10. 为了凑10条，台词一句："Iris, in the movies, we have leading ladies and we have the best friend. You, I can tell, are a leading lady but for some reason, you're behaving like the best friend“ 大家好好体会。

这段时间尽量看一些不用动脑子的电影。

恋爱假期很温暖。

不搭界的两国四人，奇妙的交换空间，彼此交错而未必有终局。

恋爱假期不会让你期待童话收尾，只告诉你至少今天你还可以抓得住。

温暖的假期，导演用了点可爱的伎俩。

于是片子里就有了很多很奇妙的好莱坞华丽小点心。

霍夫曼，满墙的碟，加上很多别人说了我不知道的，这算是部很好看小料点缀够足的商业电影。

不用动太多脑子，很温暖就像温丝莱特的笑容。

像结局一样，一切都可以缓期执行。

笑容收人的英国花样美男裘德洛惊艳的超级童话奶爸生活，迷人的的傻大姐卡梅隆迪亚兹少有的穿这么严肃，还穿着纯情的让人感慨万分的白色小内衣。

温丝莱特向来温润如玉，她好像知性版的莫妮卡贝鲁奇。

啊还有一个杰克布莱克，什么时候看着他都高兴，听说这人神叨异常也就好玩异常。

好喜欢样板间裘德洛在这部电影里的样子，帅成那样的单身奶爸总是很讨姑娘爱不释手的喜欢。

他和卡梅隆的脸盘格格不入。

他们本身就不搭界。

两对四角，明显的不同国籍，就这样互相交集，童话了一把。

卡梅隆的大房子真漂亮，温丝莱特的小屋温暖的光亮让人一下变得柔软。

关于卡梅隆。

从小，十岁前吧，那时候就喜欢她的模样，笑容甜美金黄头发，我好友的婚礼里面的满分女友。

家里现在存着成捆的老大众电影，是我小时候最爱之一，那上面常常有她修长的样子。

他是相当混的混血。

我记得大概提到了八个国家。

怪不得这样灵透好看长腿大眼。

后来长大了一些，那时候傻瓜一样刻意喜欢传说中有深度电影。

很好笑。

然后自然而然觉得此女美的肤浅呀，现在我发觉我还是很喜欢她，虽然她明显的老态却仍然甜美傻气的可耻。

看恋爱假期只需要放轻松。

其实也不用纠结里面的大小点缀也可以很满足。

就像结局，不用担心什么时候该离开。

管它呢。

今天，我们很快乐。

不要强迫自己想明天的事。

偶尔，这样宠溺自己。

温丝莱特住的深闺小屋，google真的可以找到。